Facts and statistics about multiracial families in Canada

This research is about the unexpected financial crisis faced by a multiracial Single parent in Canada. The mother has three years old adopted child and a household income of about $80000 to $90000. In Canada, Income acts as a measure of economic and social wellbeing. Other measures of economic well-being such as wealth are also fundamental. Wealth can be defined as the number of assets a family has minus the debts. Lancaster (2009 p.36) states that being a lone multiracial parent is challenging. Trying to provide your child with all the necessities, love, support, guidance and encouragement is always challenging despite having a good income. When a child is born, a single parent is normally trapped between offering care to the child and having a good income at the same time. According to Steinberg & Hall (2010 p.108) most Lone parents prefer to earn an income rather than offering care to their children. This is what makes them give their children for adoption when they are still young. On the other hand research has shown that most multiracial lone parents do not believe in themselves. Others do not easily accept the role of being a parent due to various circumstances. This makes them take their children to foster care centres despite them having a good income. However Twine (2010 p.56) notes that unexpected financial crisis may arise making a lone parent to give his child for adoption despite having a good income. Statisticians in Canada have shown that most of the children in foster care centres are from multiracial families. Further studies have shown that most of the children given up for adoption are from Single parents. One of the major reasons as to why biological parents give up their children for adoption is high poverty levels. There are a few cases where parents give up their children for adoption for some other reasons.one of those reasons being unexpected financial crisis.

Irregular working schedule is one major cause of unexpected financial crisis in multiracial families. According to  Lancaster (2009 p.278) states that Unpredictable and irregular working schedules make it difficult for one to care for his children.17 percent of people working in Canada are subjected to irregular working schedules. According to Steinberg & Hall (2010 p. 47) Parents with unpredictable working schedules may not have stable incomes. They also have a difficult time meeting the needs of the child as well as meeting the different schedules and appointments. On the other hand, there are jobs that cannot sustain a family. The income one is paid might not be enough to cater for housing, clothing, transportation, and health coverage. It is very expensive to meet the expenses of a child as well. Twine (2010 p.136) stated that workers of color are thought to be paid lower wages because of lower education levels. Another cause of the unexpected financial crisis is the household debt. The high cost of raising a child combined with inadequate income makes lone parents borrow money for maintenance. According to Twine (2010 p.154) Debt acts as an outcome of pressure that parents face and can as well be the cause of stress to a parent especially when the interests grows big. Debt makes it difficult for multiracial parents to cater for their children. Employment discrimination is another factor that causes unexpected financial crisis to parents. Steinberg & Hall (2010 p.209) states that parents with care giving responsibilities are mostly not preferred for employment compared to parents without caregiving responsibilities. Thus many lone parents prefer giving up their children for adoption. On the other hand, it is always difficult for Lone mothers to access cheap child care services. The available child care services are costly. Thus parents prefer taking their children for adoption.

Causes of unexpected financial crisis in multiracial families

When unexpected events happen, they affect the financial position of the parent. The child always begins to undergo some challenges. Lancaster (2009 p.31) states that the unexpected financial crisis makes parents unable to provide financial demand and necessities. These events are likely to bring about low self-esteem, increased hostility, reduced mental health, depression and a pessimistic outlook on life. The unexpected financial crisis especially those caused by debt are likely to bring about suicide and drug abuse because of stress and depression. They further affect the physical health of a person leading to headaches, stomach aches, and insomnia. This prompts the parent to take the child to a foster care centre despite having an above average income. Ward & Bélanger (2011 p.78) Stated that a lone parent who is faced with a financial crisis do not respond as expected to the needs of his child . Multiracial lone parents are also thought to be less nurturing, and inconsistent when it comes to the disciplining their children.

On the other hand, it is not always easy for single parents to give up their children to foster care centres because of the unexpected financial crisis. This will always cause psychological issues to both the child and the mother. Turner (2008 p.31) noted that every child always want to grow near her mother when that bond is broken early in life the child may feel unloved and unwanted. This may affect his upbringing and the person he may become in future. On the other hand, mothers may view themselves as failures having not been in a position to bring up their own children.

According to Turner (2008 p. 68) early childhood educators need to be aware of the various reasons that are causing the financial crisis in the family. On the other hand, they need to discuss the state of the child with the parent. This is to help see whether there are other alternatives for the child instead of him being placed in a child care at a younger age.

Early childhood teachers can also help an adopted child to be aware of his family structure .Teachers need to emphasize more on the definition of a family rather than the circumstances surrounding the birth of a child. It is necessary for early childhood teachers to be aware of the financial and cultural background of each child in care centres. This will help the teacher to determine the issues that may be surrounding every child .Through these educators can offer the necessary care for every child. The teacher needs to be sensitive and selective when dealing with feelings of adopted children. Thus they don’t have to bring topics that may make adopted children feel confused. This includes topics such as bringing new-born pictures in class. Steinberg & Hall (2010 p.340) argues that multiracial parents do not easily share the background of their children with the classroom teacher in care centres.. However, teachers always try to treat children equally. Early childhood educators should not assume that children are from the same family structure. Steinberg & Hall (2010 p.12) States we have to come up with environments that will support children despite their backgrounds.

Information and challenges facing multiracial Single mothers because of the unexpected financial crisis

There are many lessons I can learn from this topic. Turner (2008 p.89) argued that unexpected financial issues affect everyone in a family ranging from parents to children. Multiracial families are greatly affected by financial problems. This is because of the differences in backgrounds and lack of strong family ties. Turner (2008 p.90) further stated that a single Parent in a financial crisis may not be in a position to meet the financial needs of their children and they are also not concerned about their upbringing. The little children may end up lacking basic needs thus taking them to care centres. On the other hand, educators too need to be supportive to adopted children and multiracial families especially those going through some financial issues. Ward & Bélanger (2011 p.345) states that educators should always have a way of growing their self-esteem of the lone parents and the children to help them beat the odds that surround their lives.

This information has greatly helped me in understanding families and various reasons why children are in foster care centres. It has taught me that we are all from different backgrounds and we need better environments to thrive. Twine (2010 p.128) states that our main problem is not the circumstance we are facing, but what we are not determined to change. Multiracial Families facing financial crisis also need physchological and financial support. Parents need to open up about the different issues that surround their children without fear. This will help in understanding their lives better. Thus for the successful upbringing of an adopted children collaboration of both parents and the care centres is necessary.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the unexpected financial crisis happens to everyone at a certain point in life. Thus multiracial single parents should not fear opening up of the situation they are going through and seeking help. This will help in making sure that children are not affected. Twine (2010 p. 190) argues that parents need to prepare for the unexpected financial crisis by saving some cash, looking for some alternative jobs, and clearing debts.

References

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Twine, F. W. (2010). A white side of black Britain: Interracial intimacy and racial literacy. Durham [NC: Duke University Press. https://www.worldcat.org/title/white-side-of-black-britain-interracial-intimacy-and-racial-literacy/oclc/503828236

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